Let me start of by saying that I love the initiative; Had I known about this thread before playing my first game, I would've most certainly tried to get someone to show me the ropes in the first game. Therefore, after reading this, I've tried it out quite a bit... it is however a lot harder than one might guess...
For some reason, new players aren't as interested in this kind of service, as one would expect - I am still researching the grounds.
My attempts (*edit: quickly copy/pasted in excel - it's >100 entries..., 103 to be exact) over the last few weeks:
Messages
Displaying 1-20 of 291 messages. Between Message Last reply Options
« 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, ..., 14, 15, »
To: Ñarles First time player (1) 42 minutes ago
To: abraker First time player (16) Today, 01:14
To: Charleslak First time player (2) Yesterday, 18:47
To: fmontenegro First time player (3) Yesterday, 17:07
To: Dreturns First time player (1) Yesterday, 13:22
To: Willis_the_police First time player (3) 06 May 2019, 18:02
To: M-A First time player (4) 06 May 2019, 18:02
To: General_Swag First time player (2) 06 May 2019, 15:18
To: kitskits First time player (5) 05 May 2019, 23:50
To: yagoboy First time player (2) 05 May 2019, 21:53
To: OOOXXX First time player (1) 05 May 2019, 14:03
To: snyviper First time player (1) 05 May 2019, 08:33
To: kapy542 First time player (1) 04 May 2019, 23:41
To: Sotkanpoika First time player (3) 04 May 2019, 23:38
To: Heisen First time player (1) 04 May 2019, 16:30
To: MFinnerhoulp First time player (1) 04 May 2019, 15:28
To: smoaky First time player (1) 04 May 2019, 09:10
To: YareYare First time player (1) 03 May 2019, 18:17
To: elhades First time player (1) 03 May 2019, 18:16
To: captain_subasa First time player (1) 03 May 2019, 18:16
To: Aemiliavs First time player (1) 03 May 2019, 18:16
To: Quiet First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 22:49
To: Jana First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 19:34
To: boterham First time player (3) 02 May 2019, 00:18
To: Bartcore First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 00:12
To: 96benaw First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 00:12
To: criscross First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 00:11
To: sabertooth First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 00:11
To: lhaasee First time player (2) 01 May 2019, 14:39
To: Sushi77 First time player (1) 01 May 2019, 12:29
To: mh_azizian First time player (1) 01 May 2019, 08:43
To: byronNAX First time player (1) 01 May 2019, 08:43
To: TheDavid First time player (1) 30 Apr 2019, 18:16
To: acpopescu First time player (6) 30 Apr 2019, 15:49
To: Monazangi First time player (1) 30 Apr 2019, 14:35
To: yanext First time player (1) 29 Apr 2019, 20:34
To: owen1234 First time player (1) 29 Apr 2019, 20:33
To: funbeasts First time player (1) 29 Apr 2019, 11:05
To: flemcro First time player (3) 28 Apr 2019, 20:16
To: snupi007 First time player (1) 28 Apr 2019, 16:42
To: Cferg23 First time player (1) 28 Apr 2019, 16:41
To: bennieBew First time player (2) 28 Apr 2019, 16:41
To: They_Did_What First time player (1) 27 Apr 2019, 14:26
To: msadik First time player (1) 27 Apr 2019, 13:54
To: Kiko First time player (1) 27 Apr 2019, 10:03
To: boacabelo First time player (1) 26 Apr 2019, 21:41
To: ziafaizi First time player (1) 25 Apr 2019, 23:39
To: minhh First time player (1) 24 Apr 2019, 13:25
To: ZeroGam First time player (1) 24 Apr 2019, 13:25
To: kubax First time player (1) 24 Apr 2019, 13:24
To: Johnniereory First time player (1) 23 Apr 2019, 19:24
To: kobra_boi First time player (1) 23 Apr 2019, 13:07
To: benallover First time player (1) 23 Apr 2019, 13:06
To: sumersumer First time player (1) 22 Apr 2019, 22:03
To: Vada First time player (1) 22 Apr 2019, 22:02
To: alczek First time player (1) 22 Apr 2019, 22:01
To: mb11689 First time player (1) 22 Apr 2019, 22:01
To: ThreeLui First time player (1) 20 Apr 2019, 06:26
To: Vada First time player (1) 19 Apr 2019, 22:36
To: aadelw11 First time player (1) 19 Apr 2019, 13:41
To: mooky2 First time player (1) 19 Apr 2019, 13:40
To: Bluegoetz First time player (3) 18 Apr 2019, 22:38
To: MINEmade First time player (1) 18 Apr 2019, 21:59
To: Bluegoetz First time player (1) 17 Apr 2019, 22:36
To: JohnnyBRotten First time player (1) 17 Apr 2019, 14:34
To: brooksshane44 First time player (1) 17 Apr 2019, 10:31
To: alczek First time player (1) 16 Apr 2019, 20:22
To: mb11689 First time player (1) 15 Apr 2019, 21:41
To: therealglasz First time player (1) 15 Apr 2019, 10:18
To: kmt First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 23:15
To: ronaldimpum First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:53
To: MrB First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:52
To: CatholicCrusader33AD First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:51
To: joshrix6 First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:51
To: Supe First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:51
To: Skuldakn First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:51
To: Grandma First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:50
To: RighteousZeal First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:50
To: ktumbleweed First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:50
To: springie First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:49
To: muhalosiv First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 13:09
To: Erikn1982 First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 11:41
To: promask First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 11:09
To: similica First time player (1) 12 Apr 2019, 17:38
To: macidc01 Hey there! (6) 12 Apr 2019, 12:45
To: zakeri72 Wish to do a practise game? (2) 12 Apr 2019, 11:21
To: jwesoloski Game - Join me (1) 12 Apr 2019, 11:07
To: mrbigd Game - Join me (1) 11 Apr 2019, 21:01
To: asperbund Game - Join me (1) 11 Apr 2019, 21:00
To: _fdt_ Game - Join me (2) 11 Apr 2019, 20:39
To: swisher Game - Join me (2) 08 Apr 2019, 14:49
To: Colombian_Army Game - Join me (2) 08 Apr 2019, 14:49
To: myself Game - Join me (1) 02 Apr 2019, 13:07
To: ag63 Game - Join me (1) 02 Apr 2019, 12:40
To: Akel Hey there! (1) 25 Mar 2019, 18:24
To: pierre0701 Hey there! (14) 24 Mar 2019, 20:21
To: GenghisKan Game - Join me (1) 18 Mar 2019, 23:16
To: SarcasticDom Game - Join me (1) 18 Mar 2019, 23:14
To: Darion1911 Game - Join me (1) 15 Mar 2019, 16:56
To: gabrielle.lebrun Game - Join me (1) 15 Mar 2019, 16:53
To: DannyProvolone Game - Join me (2) 12 Mar 2019, 20:39
To: jensin Game - Join me (2) 12 Mar 2019, 20:39
To: jrl129 Game - Join me (2) 12 Mar 2019, 20:30
Note: all these messages amounted to a grant total of 4 games played... obviously, if there's a (1) - it means there was no response at all from the recipient; even with a (2) and a (3), most of them didn't get responses either, just me reaching out some more... (e.g. sending them a message that a game has been prepared and an invite send out; they'd just have to hop on in) - without checking every last message, I would suppose that about ~8 people actually replied? I believe 2 (?) replied that they're familiar with the game and are not interested in a 1v1, just wish to play big(ger) games (fair enough).Currently, the message I send out as a standard is this one:
Hey there!
Just noticed you are new to this site. If you want to, I could set up a quick 1v1 game so you can get a feeling for how the mechanics work on this website. I know I have struggled quite a bit with them when I discovered the website.
Let me know what you think of it
With kind regards,
-AlexFor some reason, it is not appealing enough for most players to respond, let alone take the offer... the 4 that did actually come to fruition, are the following:
ag63 -
https://dominating12.com/game/899181 // she really made an effort to understand/improve (generally, girls have a way lower threshold to accept help)
abraker -
https://dominating12.com/game/904285 // he seemed quite involved
Monazangi -
https://dominating12.com/game/911805 // not sure what to think of this player...
kitskits -
https://dominating12.com/game/912279 // first (& thus far... only!) player to actually stick around after his first game (5-8 May; 17 games played, of which 5 won)
At this point, I'm not quite sure whether it's worth the effort; 2 months of trying to reach out to new players whenever I notice them, getting <10 responses and <5 who try it out, of which, thus far, only 1 seems to be sticking around at the website... (<10% response, <5% success with getting a game, <1% complete success in getting a "stayer"
Disclaimer: this does NOT mean that everyone else isn't sticking around, nor that I think everyone should (be forced to) play a(n easy) 1v1 game to get a brief introduction to the mechanics. Posted this to share my experience/observation wrt this topic/idea. If someone has ideas how to boost the efficiency or something, feel free to share! =)
-Alex
Let me start of by saying that I love the initiative; Had I known about this thread before playing my first game, I would've most certainly tried to get someone to show me the ropes in the first game. Therefore, after reading this, I've tried it out quite a bit... it is however a lot harder than one might guess...
For some reason, new players aren't as interested in this kind of service, as one would expect - I am still researching the grounds.
My attempts (*edit: quickly copy/pasted in excel - it's >100 entries..., 103 to be exact) over the last few weeks:
[spoiler=Bunch of messages wrt trying to get new players to play a game and get accustomed with mechanics]Messages
Displaying 1-20 of 291 messages. Between Message Last reply Options
« 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, ..., 14, 15, »
To: Ñarles First time player (1) 42 minutes ago
To: abraker First time player (16) Today, 01:14
To: Charleslak First time player (2) Yesterday, 18:47
To: fmontenegro First time player (3) Yesterday, 17:07
To: Dreturns First time player (1) Yesterday, 13:22
To: Willis_the_police First time player (3) 06 May 2019, 18:02
To: M-A First time player (4) 06 May 2019, 18:02
To: General_Swag First time player (2) 06 May 2019, 15:18
To: kitskits First time player (5) 05 May 2019, 23:50
To: yagoboy First time player (2) 05 May 2019, 21:53
To: OOOXXX First time player (1) 05 May 2019, 14:03
To: snyviper First time player (1) 05 May 2019, 08:33
To: kapy542 First time player (1) 04 May 2019, 23:41
To: Sotkanpoika First time player (3) 04 May 2019, 23:38
To: Heisen First time player (1) 04 May 2019, 16:30
To: MFinnerhoulp First time player (1) 04 May 2019, 15:28
To: smoaky First time player (1) 04 May 2019, 09:10
To: YareYare First time player (1) 03 May 2019, 18:17
To: elhades First time player (1) 03 May 2019, 18:16
To: captain_subasa First time player (1) 03 May 2019, 18:16
To: Aemiliavs First time player (1) 03 May 2019, 18:16
To: Quiet First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 22:49
To: Jana First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 19:34
To: boterham First time player (3) 02 May 2019, 00:18
To: Bartcore First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 00:12
To: 96benaw First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 00:12
To: criscross First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 00:11
To: sabertooth First time player (1) 02 May 2019, 00:11
To: lhaasee First time player (2) 01 May 2019, 14:39
To: Sushi77 First time player (1) 01 May 2019, 12:29
To: mh_azizian First time player (1) 01 May 2019, 08:43
To: byronNAX First time player (1) 01 May 2019, 08:43
To: TheDavid First time player (1) 30 Apr 2019, 18:16
To: acpopescu First time player (6) 30 Apr 2019, 15:49
To: Monazangi First time player (1) 30 Apr 2019, 14:35
To: yanext First time player (1) 29 Apr 2019, 20:34
To: owen1234 First time player (1) 29 Apr 2019, 20:33
To: funbeasts First time player (1) 29 Apr 2019, 11:05
To: flemcro First time player (3) 28 Apr 2019, 20:16
To: snupi007 First time player (1) 28 Apr 2019, 16:42
To: Cferg23 First time player (1) 28 Apr 2019, 16:41
To: bennieBew First time player (2) 28 Apr 2019, 16:41
To: They_Did_What First time player (1) 27 Apr 2019, 14:26
To: msadik First time player (1) 27 Apr 2019, 13:54
To: Kiko First time player (1) 27 Apr 2019, 10:03
To: boacabelo First time player (1) 26 Apr 2019, 21:41
To: ziafaizi First time player (1) 25 Apr 2019, 23:39
To: minhh First time player (1) 24 Apr 2019, 13:25
To: ZeroGam First time player (1) 24 Apr 2019, 13:25
To: kubax First time player (1) 24 Apr 2019, 13:24
To: Johnniereory First time player (1) 23 Apr 2019, 19:24
To: kobra_boi First time player (1) 23 Apr 2019, 13:07
To: benallover First time player (1) 23 Apr 2019, 13:06
To: sumersumer First time player (1) 22 Apr 2019, 22:03
To: Vada First time player (1) 22 Apr 2019, 22:02
To: alczek First time player (1) 22 Apr 2019, 22:01
To: mb11689 First time player (1) 22 Apr 2019, 22:01
To: ThreeLui First time player (1) 20 Apr 2019, 06:26
To: Vada First time player (1) 19 Apr 2019, 22:36
To: aadelw11 First time player (1) 19 Apr 2019, 13:41
To: mooky2 First time player (1) 19 Apr 2019, 13:40
To: Bluegoetz First time player (3) 18 Apr 2019, 22:38
To: MINEmade First time player (1) 18 Apr 2019, 21:59
To: Bluegoetz First time player (1) 17 Apr 2019, 22:36
To: JohnnyBRotten First time player (1) 17 Apr 2019, 14:34
To: brooksshane44 First time player (1) 17 Apr 2019, 10:31
To: alczek First time player (1) 16 Apr 2019, 20:22
To: mb11689 First time player (1) 15 Apr 2019, 21:41
To: therealglasz First time player (1) 15 Apr 2019, 10:18
To: kmt First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 23:15
To: ronaldimpum First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:53
To: MrB First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:52
To: CatholicCrusader33AD First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:51
To: joshrix6 First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:51
To: Supe First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:51
To: Skuldakn First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:51
To: Grandma First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:50
To: RighteousZeal First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:50
To: ktumbleweed First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:50
To: springie First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 16:49
To: muhalosiv First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 13:09
To: Erikn1982 First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 11:41
To: promask First time player (1) 14 Apr 2019, 11:09
To: similica First time player (1) 12 Apr 2019, 17:38
To: macidc01 Hey there! (6) 12 Apr 2019, 12:45
To: zakeri72 Wish to do a practise game? (2) 12 Apr 2019, 11:21
To: jwesoloski Game - Join me (1) 12 Apr 2019, 11:07
To: mrbigd Game - Join me (1) 11 Apr 2019, 21:01
To: asperbund Game - Join me (1) 11 Apr 2019, 21:00
To: _fdt_ Game - Join me (2) 11 Apr 2019, 20:39
To: swisher Game - Join me (2) 08 Apr 2019, 14:49
To: Colombian_Army Game - Join me (2) 08 Apr 2019, 14:49
To: myself Game - Join me (1) 02 Apr 2019, 13:07
To: ag63 Game - Join me (1) 02 Apr 2019, 12:40
To: Akel Hey there! (1) 25 Mar 2019, 18:24
To: pierre0701 Hey there! (14) 24 Mar 2019, 20:21
To: GenghisKan Game - Join me (1) 18 Mar 2019, 23:16
To: SarcasticDom Game - Join me (1) 18 Mar 2019, 23:14
To: Darion1911 Game - Join me (1) 15 Mar 2019, 16:56
To: gabrielle.lebrun Game - Join me (1) 15 Mar 2019, 16:53
To: DannyProvolone Game - Join me (2) 12 Mar 2019, 20:39
To: jensin Game - Join me (2) 12 Mar 2019, 20:39
To: jrl129 Game - Join me (2) 12 Mar 2019, 20:30 [/spoiler]
[i]Note: all these messages amounted to [u]a grant total of 4 games played[/u]... obviously, if there's a (1) - it means there was no response at all from the recipient; even with a (2) and a (3), most of them didn't get responses either, just me reaching out some more... (e.g. sending them a message that a game has been prepared and an invite send out; they'd just have to hop on in) - without checking every last message, I would suppose that about ~8 people actually replied? I believe 2 (?) replied that they're familiar with the game and are not interested in a 1v1, just wish to play big(ger) games (fair enough).[/i]
Currently, the message I send out as a standard is this one:
[i]Hey there!
Just noticed you are new to this site. If you want to, I could set up a quick 1v1 game so you can get a feeling for how the mechanics work on this website. I know I have struggled quite a bit with them when I discovered the website.
Let me know what you think of it
With kind regards,
-Alex[/i]
For some reason, it is not appealing enough for most players to respond, let alone take the offer... the 4 that did actually come to fruition, are the following:
[user]ag63[/user] - https://dominating12.com/game/899181 // she really made an effort to understand/improve (generally, girls have a way lower threshold to accept help)
[user]abraker[/user] - https://dominating12.com/game/904285 // he seemed quite involved
[user]Monazangi[/user] - https://dominating12.com/game/911805 // not sure what to think of this player...
[user]kitskits[/user] - https://dominating12.com/game/912279 // first (& thus far... only!) player to actually stick around after his first game (5-8 May; 17 games played, of which 5 won)
At this point, I'm not quite sure whether it's worth the effort; 2 months of trying to reach out to new players whenever I notice them, getting <10 responses and <5 who try it out, of which, thus far, only 1 seems to be sticking around at the website... (<10% response, <5% success with getting a game, <1% complete success in getting a "stayer")
[i]Disclaimer: this does [u]NOT[/u] mean that everyone else isn't sticking around, nor that I think everyone should (be forced to) play a(n easy) 1v1 game to get a brief introduction to the mechanics. [/i]
Posted this to share my experience/observation wrt this topic/idea. If someone has ideas how to boost the efficiency or something, feel free to share! =)
-Alex
“Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love. How on earth can you explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? Put your hand on a stove for a minute and it seems like an hour. Sit with that special girl for an hour and it seems like a minute. That's relativity.”
― Albert Einstein